November has the the month of the Warrior Mindset. What I have learned thus far from all the guests I have interviewed on Adrenaline Living Talk Show is clarity. If you want to be successful you must first know what you want. Take a few moments and write down your goals. You will be most successful fulfilling the goals that are the most emotionally charged. Feel the goals from a deeper level. What do the goals mean to you? What will happen if you achieve these goals? Do you want fame, visibility, freedom or joy. Steve Siebold says that the world class achievers make their goals so emotionally charged that "no" is n-e-v-e-r an option.
I also learned from Sanjay Burman how to read people and be sensitive to what they are communicating to you through their gestures, personal appearance and personal spaces. Observation is one of the greatest tools to the Warrior mindset and opens the mind to understanding people.
If you want something bad enough, every event and person in your life will work to conspire towards your success. Be your best at what ever you do. Excellence is an unmistakable trait of world class achievers.
Take care of your body and your body will give you the energy you need to be world class. It's a no-brainer. If your health is poor how can you ever hope to have the warrior mindset you need to succeed. When the body, mind and spirit and functioning at optimal capacity and your vision and goals are clear their is no stopping the greatness that you can achieve.
Find a coach that help you to focus and find clarity. If you haven't had the success you've always dreamed of then you may need a personal "cheerleader" to come in and give you the support and point you in the direction of success.
There are four Behavioral Communication styles by Dr. Tony Alessandra: Director, Relator, Socializer, and Thinker. I discussed with Kelly Bouchard how learning the different communication styles can assist you in understanding the warrior mindset for the different communication styles. For instance, the Director is fast paced and likes to arrive at decisions quickly and dislikes being mired in detail while the Thinker is the opposite. The Thinker likes details and they want their questions answered readily. Thinkers are slow at making decisions, cautious and are perfectionists. The Relator personality is personable, agreeable, diplomatic and co-operative. If you are dealing with a Relator type you need to be personable and be willing to create relationships. Finally, the Socializer is relationship centered, not afraid of risks and thrive in a fast paced environment. Appeal the the Socializers since of personal worth.
November is also the month of Thanksgiving and I hope that you have a blessed month of thanks and giving. Remember those that don't have families or food to eat this holiday and donate food or time and be a blessing to others.
Diva Maverick Mavens